The other day I was driving through one of our row home neighborhoods, and I saw a father turn the front yard into a movie theater for his young children and someof their friends.
He had the TV turned around in the front window, playing a Disney movie, and he was cooking hot dogs on the grill. I thought, "Wow, there is a father that is not letting the high price of gas get him down."
Can't take the children to the movies, so he will bring the movies to the children. When I drove by a little later, the Home Theater had turned in to a small block party.
I was reminded of my childhood when the parents would sit on the front porch on
a warm summer’s evening, talking or listening to the ball game on the radio, while
all of the kids in the neighborhood would play across the front lawns…games
like tag or hide and seek. Or, if you had a jar, you could catch fire flies by the dozens.
Those evenings were the best times of the summer.
As the children playing, our front yards were turned into whatever magical places our imaginations took us as our parents looked on.
Now that gas is hovering at $4 a gallon, I wonder if those family nights will start to make a comeback. Will families be spending more time at home and getting to know their neighbors like they did way back when? How nice would it be if we turned off the air conditioning and opened the widows and stepped outside?
Perhaps if we stepped out on our front porch, and turned off the video games and computers, we'd hear that magical phrase spoken by our children.
Two beautiful words that we spoke as children, but in adulthood forgot their power.
Those two simple words, only understood in their fullest, in the mind of a child:
"Let’s pretend..."
m
6:37 am on Saturday, May 7, 2011
Amen. As a teacher of primary children, one of theings I have noticed is that their imaginations are disappearing. If it's not on a screen or totally organized by adults, they have no idea how to play. It would be lovely if imaginative childhood made a comeback.
TVGigi
10:23 am on Saturday, May 7, 2011
Lovely.
Doug Donovan
10:31 am on Saturday, May 7, 2011
Agreed! Thanks for becoming a Patch blogger.
Doug Donovan
Regional Editor, Maryland
doug@patch.com
410-963-7455
Missi
12:49 pm on Saturday, May 7, 2011
Made me think back to all the nites playing tin can alley, and once the "light poles" came on it was time to go home. Parents sitting watching and talking about all the parent things and us kids with no worries or cares.......those where the days. I live at the beach now, not many neighbors, only corn fields or soy bean but we cook out and sit outside and invite friends over, watching the kids play and talking our adult talk.
Cyndi Ryan
6:37 pm on Saturday, May 7, 2011
Troy! Love this! I hope you wrote down their address so I can go hang out there for a while! You have to love a Dad like that. I had those kind of summer nights growing up in Berkshire. I miss those days. Ahhhh... to be a child again... thank you for taking me back. :)
Nanci Wheeler
8:50 pm on Saturday, May 7, 2011
Wow! that was a well written article I loved it. Took me back to the good old days when children played and they didn't have to have organized play that your parents have to pay for you just had some everyday fun!.
Robyn Franklin
10:14 pm on Sunday, May 8, 2011
Great job Troy! You truly have brought your hidden talent to light. I can tell your writing is straight from your heart. Keep up the good work! Very Proud!
Jo Anne Spangler
9:45 pm on Tuesday, May 10, 2011
**FANTASTIC** I am so proud of you, your writing is breath taking. When I read that you have written something somewhere, I can't wait to read it. It brings tears to my eyes and down my face. Love, Ms. Joey